hi there

[Destiny74]

i am 31 pregnant 7 months andabout to become single mum.

my partner found a tape from clarvoyant i went to see 4 months ago which was 1 month before i told him about bub and now he doesnt want to be with me.

Mind you he rummaged through a handbag that i had stored in my own box of things and deliberately snooped to find it. I forgot i had it and now i m facing uncertain future alone with bub cause there are some things on the tape that were said but i said them to try to catch whether she was telling the truth like i told her my other half didnt know about the baby or a debt that i had. but i dont have a debt but he doesnt believe me.

[Kirsty]

Oh no :hug: Do you think you can work it out with him?

Where abouts in the world are you?

[Destiny74]

i am in australia

he says he cant trust me now. i said why did you go into my personal stuff. i dont go into his. now he says is the kid his. there was some stuff said on the tap cause at the time we were going to break up then until i told him bout the bub and we were having a roughtime that i unload how i was feeling and that to the other lady.

like he told me he prefers older woman like he is 41 and he likes 55 to 60 year olds because they are more financial and less emotional. i dont know this time. i wish i had gotten rid of it i thought i had.

[Kirsty]

he can't trust you?

You told her about the debt, that he didn't know about. Did that scare him? Maybe he's using it as an excuse not to take responisbility of his child? Or will he be there for your baby?

[Destiny74]

but the debt was made up to see if she was telling the truth about other things.

[Kirsty]

So can you prove to him then that the debt doesn't exsist?

[Mummadoll]

wow a lot going on! Welcome to MummyBrain, I hope your SO pulls his head in before baby arrives. :) why was he snooping anyway?

[Destiny74]

i only have one account my pay goes into and it doesnt show a loan pay out lol

[Kirsty]

i only have one account my pay goes into and it doesnt show a loan pay out lolSo it it something else, not the debt? Sounds like there is something else going on, and maybe he's using that as an excuse? What do you think? :headscratch:

[Destiny74]

thats what i think.

he says i have mental problems cause i went and spilt my guts to someone but at the time i was upset, just found out i was pregnant and trying to deal with us breaking up

[Kirsty]

Of course you needed SOMEONE to talk to, surely he understands that? :hug: Do you have family support?

[Kylie]

/me waves hello ane welcome

[Hobbit]

Hi and welcome to the board. Sorry to hear about the hassles with your partner - best wishes there. I hope things sort themselves out somehow.

[Windfury]

A warm welcome to you! Please make yourself at home at MummyBrain! This is a great place to meet new people, learn new things or just relax and have fun! Hope to see you on the message boards soon!
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[Dyanna]

Hello and welcome, I sure hope things work out for you.....

huggs,